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Swimming in the dating pool with hemorrhoids can be difficult. Dating is hard enough whether you are going out to places to meet other single people or are using an online dating service.

Regardless, swimming in the dating pool with hemorrhoids is a terrible position to be in socially. Sometimes Cupid's arrow takes time to find the right target.

Dating is trickier when you develop hemorrhoids very early on in a brand new dating relationship.

I was talking to a single friend that works with me in my office. She is recently divorced and found herself swimming in the dating pool again.

I am not expressing this because we are good friends, but she is extremely and witty. A high percent of marriages end in divorce. Her professional career is going great and being in early her 30s she does not want to sit alone at home.

My friend is a head turner when we go out for happy hour with a group of coworkers. I see men do double takes all the time. The happy hour sharks circle when they notice she does not have a wedding ring on is just out with coworkers.

My witty and attractive friend told me she did not like online dating services and was going to rely on her closest friends to introduce her to single men they thought she would have something in common with.

After a few dates set up by friends (I am sorry about Ian) that did not go great she finally found someone she was very interested in for a second date that was also swimming in the dating pool after a past divorce.

The arrow of Cupid was a term she used to describe her interest in this new dating interest she had.

She was introduced to this person through a friend of hers that she has known from her college days at USC.

Life is unpredictable as we all know. My friend's divorce got nasty. A lot nastier than she had expected it to be when she originally filed for divorce and her soon to be ex-husband said he was okay with it all. He changed his mind.

The divorce stress ate her up emotionally and physically. It is tough to watch a friend cope with a nasty and heated divorce. The new guy she was dating was aware of her situation, but knowing still does not make things easier.

The stress of the bitter and nasty divorce resulted in severe constipation that resulted in an external hemorrhoid forming. She was candid with me about her personal health because she knew I was a former hemorrhoid sufferer that went through laser surgery to have my external hemorrhoid removed.

My friend is also aware I am a contributing writer for the hemorrhoids online blog. I do not hide this fact from anyone in my office. Hemorrhoids are a natural part of life and I feel it is not a health condition to be ashamed of.

My friend was nervous and worried how to express to her new dating interest she would be unable to see him until after she had an external hemorrhoid treated and cured.

She asked my advice since she remembered this happened to my girlfriend and me. I got an external hemorrhoid while we were only dating for a couple weeks. I told my gal pal to go with the truth. The divorce got stressful and an external hemorrhoid was the result. He should understand the situation. My girlfriend appreciated my honesty and did not stop seeing me.

Unfortunately, she took did exercise my dating advice on honesty and her new guy was not at all understanding about her hemorrhoid condition. He had the wrong idea that hemorrhoids were caused by having bad personal hygiene.

Their blossoming romance ended. My friend's external hemorrhoid was cured and treated using a sitz bath mixture and supplemental fiber.

I am happy my gal pal did not have to get hemorrhoid laser surgery for her external hemorrhoid like I went through. As friends we had many laughs over how this guy stopped dating her because she had an external hemorrhoid.

The reason her new dating relationship ended simply meant the guy was not ever going to be her soul mate and she actually benefited finding this out before getting serious with this guy.

Swimming in the dating pool with hemorrhoids is going to happen to many singles out there looking for love. Hemorrhoids are a part of life that millions of us will experience one time in our life.

There are various medical reports that say 75 percent of the human population will get hemorrhoids at least once in their lifetime. Even if that medical opinion is inflated by health experts it still means hemorrhoids will negatively impact many singles that are swimming in the dating pool searching for a soul mate.

If someone stops dating you because you develop a hemorrhoid it is a good choice to not bother with them and move on with your dating life.

My dear friend is once again swimming in the dating pool in the hopes of finding her soul mate, but this time she is completely hemorrhoid free because of a sitz bath remedy and a fiber supplement to prevent constipation.