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Everyone has dreams and hopes that motivate them from day to day. Whether our dreams lie in the professional realm, in a family or just with an adventure, they all constantly motivate us to work. Our hopes, however can seem too distant, too hard to achieve, and out of our reach. The way to get what you want closer than it may seem. Use my suggestions to get a little closer to that dream.

Create a clear image of your goal. Before you can work for your dreams, you have to figure out what they are. Create a concrete description of what you want with all of the details you need. Deciding exactly what you want puts you closer to your goal already and makes it a concrete goal that we can work for rather than a distant dream.

Make a plan. When you have a solid idea of what you want, you can start to make a plan of how to get it. Think of realistic steps you can take to bring your dream closer to you. Do you need to go on blind dates to meet new people? Do you need to go back to school to get your dream job? Plan out the steps to ensure success.

Set small attainable goals that will help you to get closer to your dream. Having small, achievable goals along the way brings that big goal much closer. It is daunting to have one big goal. Planning out small goals along the way makes it much easier to work for that big goal. It also lets you celebrate small wins along the way and stay motivated to get what you want.

Ask for the things you want. You have to state what you want if you're ever going to get it. Form a good argument for why you deserve that thing you want. This won't always make it happen right away but at least you can start to get a realistic idea of how to get that big dream.

Drop the negativity. A positive attitude and positive self talk make a huge impact on your life. Approach obstacles from a place of calm positivity and self belief and you are sure to succeed. Believing that you can do something takes you closer to that goal and makes the whole process much easier.

Put in your best work to get what you want. I know you're not dreaming of working hard but putting in your best effort is a necessary step on your road to success. It doesn't always mean you'll get what you want when you want it. But good work will be rewarded eventually and putting in a great effort will have great results.

Enjoy the steps along the way to make the whole process quicker and easier. Sure, it's not the process that you dream of. It's not the billions of bad dates that you dream of when you're hoping to find the right person. It's not the hours of exercise you dream of when you hope to lose weight. But enjoy the process and the fruits of your labor will come much more quickly and easily. Find ways to enjoy the long nights at work. Make a game out of your work outs. Make it one of your goals to enjoy as much as possible and it won't seem like work at all to get what you want.